It is a proven fact that minds of children are
impressionable and highly receptive. In my opinion, young children are always
influenced by people around them and hence they subconsciously imitate the behavior
of these adults.
It is observed very commonly that parents may try very hard
to inculcate habits in their children by telling them what to do and what not
and yet the children do not imbibe any of them. In contrast, what is general
routine in the house in terms of every day behavior is unconsciously aborted
by the children’s mind and psyche. This is more intensely and accurately
observed in language skills as children imitate every sound we make even when
they do not know the meanings of any of the words spoken.
Moreover, a negative result of this process is that children
adopt a lot of bad habits as well before they are old enough to know that such
traits can never help them in any way in their life. Only when they grow up
into youth and broaden their academic horizons, they can differentiate between
good and bad.
On the other hand, there is an argument that each child is
blessed with a basic instinct that is his or her individuality. Whatever the
context of growing up, this instinct guides the child and is a stronger force
than the behavior of others around him or her. There is credibility to this argument
yet the effect of environment cannot completely be negated.
Therefore, in my opinion, children learn a lot
from observation of people around them and thus, it is our duty to see that we
carry both ourselves with responsibility.
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