It is fundamental duty of parents
and teachers to help their children evolve into responsible individuals by
imparting them lessons of good behaviour. To ensure that their purpose id
fulfilled, parents adopt every possible mode for bringing up their children in
a better manner. One such mode the imposing of discipline through rules. I
personally believe that though children cannot be given a total rule-free
atmosphere, yet there need to be lesser regulations and more freedom.
So many people argue that parents
and teacher should make some more rules and give less freedom to youngsters.
Firstly, they say imposing strict rules is the only way of making juveniles
more disciplines more disciplined. Young ones who grow up in highly controlled environs
behave unpredictably mischievous in the absence of guardians and may also have
personality disorders as they grow up.
Secondly, they point out that
strict rules make them more cultured, well-behaved and sophisticated adults in
the future. However, i believe that parents and teachers are the role models
for the young ones and so they try to shape themselves like their parents and
teachers. Hence, any disparity in the behaviour may lead to less respect and
diminished importance of rules in the minds of the children.
Finally, some people assert that
restricting freedom helps in protecting them from the snit-social or harmful
elements of the society. Contrarily, i think is the age to learn good and
bad things around the world. Confining
them may diminish their ability to deal with reality.
All in all, it is true that we
cannot give total freedom to kids, as they do not know what is good or bad for
them. According to my opinion, fewer desirable rules and greater freedom, serve
the purpose of shaping the child into a good individual.
On the other side
It is the principal duty of
parents and teachers to protect their children from danger, ensure good
behaviour and mould them into good individuals. They should adopt all possible
means to work towards this purpose. I think it is essential that we put in
place certain rules of behaviour and limit the freedom children have.
Firstly, children are innocent
and more vulnerable as compared to mature adults. Stricter rules ensure that
children obey them and become more disciplined. This in turn, helps them
concentrating more upon the tasks allotted to them. Moreover, it ultimately
leads to a better performance academically and socially. Secondly, firm rules
also make them more cultured and well behaved and finally leads them to become better
human beings.
In addition to this, restricting
their freedom protects them from some evils in the society for example, bad
habits like smoking or drug addiction. These can otherwise drive them away from
their basic responsibility of getting a good education for themselves.
However, some advocates of child
freedom assert that confining and development of children to stem rules may
give rise to a dislike in them towards their family and school. Next, it may
effect them in their overall development because their basic suggest that
rather than imposing rules, parents and teachers should be well behaved to make
their children like them.
To conclude, according to me, it
is true that we should snatch the total freedom of children. However, imposing
desired rules and giving required freedom would certainly mould children into
better citizens. Moreover, we can protect them from danger.
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